Women's Private Consulting
with Lisa
There is a particular quality of attention that changes things. Not the kind that analyzes or advises from a distance — but the kind that enters the room fully, that receives you completely, that sees not only what you’re saying but what you haven’t yet found words for.
That is what I bring to this work. The eros running through it, the authority, the intuition, the depth — not something I arrived at easily. It has been lived, studied, embodied, and refined over decades.
An hour with me is not like an hour with anyone else.
“Lisa Blair is truly brilliant and exceptionally capable, widely skilled, dynamically flexible, and an overall badass. If this resonates for you, consider this a sign.”
— Ruby C.H., Coach
You've come to the right place if:
— You want to go deeper in your relationship — not just fix what’s broken, but understand what’s possible
— You’re navigating conflict and want to move through it toward closeness rather than simply toward resolution
— You’re ready to explore the full complexity of how you love and are loved
— You’re longing to know yourself more fully — your body, your inner life, your erotic self
— You’re a therapist or coach working with relationships and intimacy, and you want the support of someone who has gone as deep into this territory as anyone you’ll find
Lisa welcomes all women-identified humans across the full spectrum of sexual identity, ethnicity, race, culture, nationality, and relationship structure. She brings a sex-positive, non-judgmental presence to all of her work.
You are welcome here, exactly as you are.
What we will work on together
Relationships and Emotional Intimacy
Relationships are living systems — complex, context-dependent, and always asking something new of us. We work with what's actually present: the places you've grown close and the places you've grown distant, the patterns that repeat, the conversations that never quite land, the longings that go unnamed. And often, underneath all of it — the fear of intimacy itself, and the question that haunts so many women: whether you are worthy of the love you want.
How you navigate conflict toward each other, toward something truer — rather than simply toward resolution. How closeness and sovereignty live together. How to speak what has been unspeakable, and hear what has been unheard. The goal is not a better-managed relationship. It is a more genuinely intimate one.
Sovereignty & Your Erotic Self
Your relationship with yourself — your body, your beauty, your pleasure, your sensuality and sexuality, your creative energy, your power, your sovereignty. Most of us were never taught that tending the erotic self is our own responsibility — not our partner's, not our lover's, not anyone else's. It belongs to us. This work begins there: in the reclamation of what is yours, the recognition of what has been waiting to be seen, the cultivation of a self you actually want to inhabit.
To be sovereign is to belong to yourself first. And the erotic self is not separate from the relational self — how you inhabit your own body, your own desire, your own aliveness shapes everything about how you love and are loved. This work tends both — and explores what that means, and what it makes possible.
Case Supervision
For women who are therapists or coaches working with their clients around relationships, intimacy, communication, and the erotic self. This is specialized territory — nuanced, layered, and rarely addressed in clinical training. What I bring to supervision is not only theoretical grounding and years of clinical experience, but a completed doctorate in this specific domain, and the rare combination of scholarly rigor and embodied knowing that comes from living this work from the inside.
Bring your cases, your questions, your edges — the moments where you felt uncertain, where something shifted in the room and you weren't sure what to do with it, where your own material got activated. I will meet you with depth, discernment, and the kind of clarity that only comes from having gone as far into this territory as anyone you'll find.
What this isn't
This is not long-term therapy, trauma treatment, or crisis care. My consulting work is focused, expert, and process-oriented — with individualized attention shaped entirely around you. If clinical therapeutic support is what you need, I’m happy to refer you to trusted professionals.
“Working with Lisa, I experienced maximum empathy and trust. She helped me connect to root causes on a deep level and find the inner resources to proceed from there. Over my lifetime, I have seen numerous therapists, coaches, and healers of various brands. Until Lisa, I had never received this quality of uplift and assistance, which has led to profound, life-altering change.”
—D.B., Santa Fe, New Mexico
"I always experience Lisa as open and deeply authentic. With just a few intuitive and powerful words, she helps me change my perception of my experiences and leads me into a place where I trust, accept, and love myself.
—M.M., Santa Fe, New Mexico
My Approach
What I bring to this work is rarely found together: scholarly expertise in emotional intimacy and romantic partnership, more than 17 years of clinical experience as a psychotherapist, and a completed doctorate from the California Institute of Integral Studies — where I researched, lived, and went as deep as anyone into the question of what intimacy actually is, what it actually requires, and what becomes possible when we stop settling for less than the real thing.
My approach is an alchemical blend of the scholarly and the somatic, the clinical and the intuitive, the ancient and the rigorously contemporary. It is at once grounded in Process Work (Process-Oriented Psychology) — a depth-oriented, body-aware framework developed by Drs. Arnold and Amy Mindell — and deeply informed by the Unshaming work of my partner, David Bedrick. What I practice goes beyond non-judgment into an active, devotional belief in the removal of shame from what you carry: the beauty, power, and wisdom that shame has kept hidden, and the deep river of your own process that has been waiting for a witness who does not flinch. To this I bring my own intuitive knowing — my connection to the Goddess, the Earth and all her creatures, to ancestral wisdom, to the ways of knowing that live beyond the rational mind. And all of it is informed by decades of living intimacy from the inside, knowing its shadow as well as its beauty.
I will see you clearly — sometimes piercingly so — and meet you exactly where you are. I bring to bear not only everything I know, but everything I feel, sense, and intuit — the full range of how I receive you, including the eros that runs through me, the aliveness I have cultivated in my own body and life. Many women have sat with me with tears of recognition in their eyes.
What moves through this work is not only expertise. It is love — a deeply held love ethic that runs through everything I am and everything I do.
What you can expect
As we work together, you'll begin to notice:
— You feel more seen, known, and understood in your emotional and relational life
— Growing confidence in the moments that once felt impossible to navigate
— Language for things that had no name before
— A newfound appreciation for what lives in you — the beauty, wisdom, and power that has been waiting to be recognized and finally, fully lived
— The ability to be fully yourself while staying connected — no more choosing between the two
— Clarity on a path forward that is entirely your own
“Lisa has been, without a doubt, the most healing practitioner I have encountered in my 61+ years. She is deeply compassionate, insightful, present. She has been profoundly loving and supportive in a way I honestly had never encountered previously. I feel such respect and gratitude for her.”
—M.R., Santa Barbara, California
Private Consulting - Individual Women
Single Session
$300
60 min · Zoom
3-Session Package
$825
3 x 60 min · Zoom
Must be used within 3 months
Free 20-minute introductory call — included for those whose applications are accepted.