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‘Will You Still Love Me Tomorrow?’Charting the Course Towards Intimacy’s Uncertain Future
Examining how postnormal times — marked by complexity, chaos, and contradiction — are reshaping the landscape of romantic partnership in ways we are only beginning to map.

Lisa Blair, Ph.D.
Oct 15, 202427 min read


Love on the Rocks: The Uncertain Fate of Emotional Intimacy in Postnormal Times
How global instability is transforming our most intimate relationships in ways we are only beginning to understand.

Lisa Blair, Ph.D.
Nov 15, 202244 min read


You Can't Get There From Here: Pathways to Emotional Intimacy in Relationship
Three beliefs people bring to therapy that may be standing in the way of the connection they most desire.

Lisa Blair, Ph.D.
Jun 30, 20218 min read


Stop Trying to Be a “Good” Partner and Start Being Yourself
Here’s my first piece of advice when it comes to cultivating emotional intimacy in your relationship. Stop trying to be such a good...

Lisa Blair, Ph.D.
Jun 29, 20217 min read


Can You Hear Me? The Art of Listening
We’ve all heard it before. Really listen to your partner . Be present . It’s one of the most popular pieces of relationship advice out there. Sounds easy enough. But is it? Learning to listen is great relationship advice for those who really don’t know how to listen to their partner and truly aren’t present (Gottman et al., 2019). What most advice about listening doesn’t adequately address, however, are the times when we just don’t have the time or energy to really listen to

Lisa Blair, Ph.D.
Jun 25, 202112 min read


Are We There Yet? Reimagine Emotional Intimacy as a Process
Have you been feeling emotionally distant from your partner? Would you like to bridge that gap? Or are you at your wits’ end and ready to throw in the towel? Don’t give up before reading this post. You may be asking, “Why are we so bad at this? We screwed up again. When are we going to get it right?” It’s not you; we’ve all been misled about how romantic relationships should work especially when it comes to emotional intimacy. Although many of us unconsciously believe otherw

Lisa Blair, Ph.D.
Jun 25, 20219 min read
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