WORK WITH ME
"Lisa Blair is truly brilliant and exceptionally capable, widely skilled, dynamically flexible, and an overall badass. If this resonates for you, consider this a sign."
—Ruby C.H., Coach, Humbolt, CA
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If you are looking for help cultivating intimacy in your romantic partnership, you've come to the right place.
I offer customized guidance and collaborative coaching around building or rebuilding closeness and connection with your partner. I earned the highest level of clinical training in process-oriented psychology (Process Work) and am a doctoral-level intimacy expert. What's more, I have over 20 years of experience in my own romantic partnership, where emotional intimacy is our top priority. You'll find me to be a trusted advisor and fellow intimacy traveler, someone who understands the subtleties of relationship communication, the edginess of conflict, and the need to be your most empowered, free self in relationship while also caring for your unique nervous system. ​​​​​
My style includes a unique set of qualities and skill sets.
You'll experience the encouragement, focus, and belief of a coach, the wisdom of an educator, the intuition of a highly sensitive person, the sharp mind and expertise of a scholar, the mystery of a dream weaver, the sovereignty of the divine feminine, and the humor, authenticity, and candor of a trusted companion.
What I Do:
As an international women's consultant and coach, my approach is to work with clients on targeted issues around relationships and emotional intimacy in highly collaborative one-on-one sessions.
I educate, advise, and guide women about their relationships and emotional intimacy, utilizing a unique combination of my extensive clinical training in process-oriented psychology (Process Work), the Unshaming approach developed by my partner, David Bedrick, and my own blend of high sensitivity, intuition, empathy, and divine feminine wisdom.
I focus on increasing clients' self-awareness, self-love, personal power, freedom, confidence, intuition, conflict and communication skills, and the ability to engage in emotionally intimate relationships.
What You Do:
Clients commit to bringing to each session
1-2 central questions they want my help with or issues of interest or challenge in their relationship life or in their inner life as it relates to their relationship.
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conflict, fear of it, or specific problem areas
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communication difficulties
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jealousy, anger, resentment
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desire for boundaries
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autonomy and sovereignty
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freedom and empowerment
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sex and sensuality
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inner criticism, self-hatred, and oppression
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any other topic related to your relationship life
What I Offer:
I offer short-term and intermittent sessions to an international clientele.
Sessions may be scheduled as one-offs as needed or in a package of 3 sessions.
Note: If you are looking for weekly sessions or a more traditional therapy-style approach, I am happy to refer you to one of my trusted colleagues.
Who I Work With
I enjoy working with women from all over the world including the United States, Canada, Australia, Japan, South Africa, Bali, Israel, India, Poland,
the United Kingdom, and Mexico.
All racial and ethnic backgrounds and sexual orientations
are celebrated and welcomed.
The work I do is most impactful for clients who...
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are eager for intentional, focused, and highly collaborative sessions as opposed to a more traditional therapy-style of working where space-holding and general checking-in are more commonly emphasized
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come to sessions prepared with 1-2 issues of interest or difficulty—places in their relationship lives where they need more confidence, insight, meaning, or empowerment and less shame
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are motivated to expand their self-awareness and self-expression
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desire growth and change and are open to challenging their old belief systems
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are open to learning about both their conscious and unconscious communication, beliefs, and behaviors
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enjoy exploring and learning through in-depth dialogue, somatic unfolding/experiencing, intuition, inner feedback, role play, night-time dreams, and guided inner work.
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Many of my clients are coaches, therapists, and healers themselves who wish to explore their own romantic partnerships. I also offer case supervision to select clients whose work resonates with mine. Please inquire if you wish to enhance your own relationship work with clients. I welcome students from David Bedrick's Unshaming courses and facilitation training program, Process Work Institute and other PW Centers around the world, Sigourney Belle's Soma Mystica trainings, and Somatic Institute for Women.
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My work is not best for those who wish to focus primarily on...
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Trauma (childhood or adult): While childhood or adult trauma (any form of abuse, rape, PTSD) may come up in our work in certain contexts and may be part of our work, if your interest is specifically in working on trauma, I can refer you to one of my trusted colleagues who focuses on this.
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Body and Health Challenges: While body symptoms and body shame may arise in our work, if you are particularly interested in exploring your chronic or acute body symptoms and illnesses, body shame, or other issues related to your body and/or health and how they impact your intimate relationships, I can refer you to one of my trusted colleagues who specializes in these areas.
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Please note: I am an independent consultant, not a licensed therapist. I am unable to work with those who have at any point been hospitalized for or diagnosed with bipolar and related disorders, schizophrenia and other psychotic disorders, or borderline, narcissistic, or other personality disorders.
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SESSION OFFERINGS
If my style and approach above resonates for you, I offer a free 20 minute Zoom consultation before proceeding to make sure we are a good fit.
1 Session
$250
1 hr. session
Zoom
Phone
FaceTime
Payment via PayPal
Payment required at least 2 business days prior to session.
3 Sessions
$700
1 hr. sessions
Zoom
Phone
FaceTime
Payment via PayPal
Payment for 3-session package required in full at least 2 business days prior to first session.
Must be used within 3 months of purchase.
TESTIMONIALS
“Lisa has been, without a doubt, the most healing therapeutic practitioner I have encountered in my 61+ years. She is deeply compassionate, insightful, present. She has been profoundly loving and supportive in a way I honestly had never encountered previously. I feel such respect and gratitude for her.”
—M.R., SANTA BARBARA, CA
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“Working with Lisa, I experienced maximum empathy and trust. She helped me connect to root causes on a deep level and find the inner resources to proceed from there. Over my lifetime I have seen seven professional therapists of various brands, from social workers to psychiatrists. Until Lisa, I had never received this quality of uplift and assistance, which has led to profound, life-altering change.”
—D.B., SANTA FE, NM
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“Our sessions with Lisa are an inspiring, intimate invitation to deepen our loving for one another. She is an astutely skilled listener, meticulous in how she ensures the space for each of us to explore important threads more deeply, tracking what emerges in awareness in an organic way with effortless, sensitive flow. She hones in on what is present with enveloping compassion, loving curiosity, and brilliant insight. We are often surprised and deeply touched by what we share and discover together. We consider it a privilege and great joy for us to work with Lisa.”
—M.M. & K.G., ALBUQUERQUE, NM
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“Lisa is not only highly skilled—she is a kind and compassionate person who is truly nurturing during significant life events. I highly recommend Lisa.”
—R.F., HAXTUN, CO​​
“I always experience Lisa as open and deeply authentic. She has helped me explore the connection between the “normalization” of shocking times in my life and a deeply internalized question of worthiness. With just a few intuitive and powerful words, Lisa helps me change my perception of my experiences and leads me into a place where I trust, accept, and love myself.”
—M.M., SANTA FE, NM
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“I’ve seen many therapists over the years, and I had almost given up on it altogether because the process felt dreary, forced, and superficial. But in my first few sessions with Lisa, I made so much progress, mentally, emotionally, and spiritually; it still continues to surprise me. She guides me by flashing ‘lights’ of wisdom, strength, and love in my direction with a holistic clarity that helps me find a way back
to my true self.”
—M.P., SAN FRANCISCO, CA
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“I love Lisa Blair! She journeys with me. That says volumes. Her kindness, sincerity, awareness, and full-on presence (over the phone!) is helping me to make peace with lots of trauma. She is a gift to my SOUL.”
—S.L., SANTA FE, NM
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