Lisa Blair, M.A.Jun 30, 20218 minYou Can't Get There From Here: Pathways to Emotional Intimacy in RelationshipPeople seeking relationship help come to therapy thinking one of three things: (1) they think they are doing something wrong or feel they...
Lisa Blair, M.A.Jun 30, 20199 minIt's Me, Not You: When Relationship Work is Personal WorkPerhaps the most important thing I’ve learned about sustainable relationships is this: People have a tendency to confuse the need to work...
Lisa Blair, M.A.Mar 29, 20197 minTrusting Yourself in the Face of AuthorityWe’ve all found ourselves here at one point or another: We give another person (often an authority figure, but it can be anyone we meet...
Lisa Blair, M.A.Feb 1, 20181 minTherapy Under Five: Getting Hurt / Who's Responsible?Here's my third video in a new series I'm calling "Therapy Under Five." It's done Q&A style—in each video I read a question I've received...