Private Consulting
with Lisa
You want a relationship that feels genuinely intimate — not just functional, not just stable, but alive. That longing is what brought you here, and it's exactly what this work is built around.
You're longing for deeper connection — and you've come to the right place.
I help women and couples bridge emotional distance with clarity, confidence, and relational fluency.
Most people come to me when something isn't working — and when they've run out of explanations for why. They're not in crisis. They're intelligent, self-aware, and genuinely committed. They just need someone who understands the complexity of intimate relationships at a level that goes beyond the typical.
That's what I offer. My work draws on more than 17 years of clinical experience, doctoral research in intimacy and romantic partnership, and the kind of rigorous thinking that comes from years of research into how intimacy actually functions.
"Lisa Blair is truly brilliant and exceptionally capable, widely skilled, dynamically flexible, and an overall badass. If this resonates for you, consider this a sign."
— Ruby C.H., Coach
This Work Is Right For You If:
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You want deeper connection with your partner but feel stuck or overwhelmed
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You're committed to self-awareness, honest communication, and mutual growth
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You want to transform conflict into opportunities for closeness
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You're ready to explore emotional intimacy beyond your comfort zone
What This Isn't:
This is not long-term therapy, trauma treatment, or crisis care. My consulting work is focused, expert, and process-oriented — with individualized attention shaped entirely around you and your relationship. If clinical therapeutic support is what you need, I'm happy to refer you to trusted professionals.
What We'll Explore Together
Conflict Navigation
Learn to see conflict as a path to intimacy rather than a threat — and build confidence in taking both your side and your partner's.
Relational Patterns
Identify unconscious patterns from your past that interfere with connection — and transform them into opportunities for growth.
Communication Skills
Develop meta-communication skills, speak your needs directly, and understand what triggers fear or defensiveness.
Boundaries & Needs
Set healthy boundaries, communicate needs clearly, and care for your nervous system while staying connected.
My Approach
What I bring to this work is rarely found together: scholarly expertise in emotional intimacy and romantic partnership, more than 17 years of clinical experience as a psychotherapist, and over two decades inside my own committed relationship.
My approach is grounded in Process Work — a depth-oriented, body-aware framework developed by Drs. Arnold and Amy Mindell — alongside years of research into how intimacy actually functions: its contradictions, its complexity, and its remarkable capacity for transformation. And I bring something beyond scholarship — decades of living intimacy from the inside, knowing its shadow as well as its beauty.
I work collaboratively with you to increase self-awareness, expand relational skills, and navigate the edges of emotional intimacy — with a deeply unshaming presence. Each session centers on what you bring — whether that's conflict, communication challenges, jealousy, boundaries, autonomy, intimacy, or inner criticism as it shows up in your relationships. My high sensitivity and finely tuned intuition mean I'm often tracking what's beneath the surface before it's been named.
I also bring an educator's instinct to this work — offering frameworks, naming what I see, and giving you language for experiences that may have felt shapeless until now.
What You Can Expect
As we work together, you'll start to notice:
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You feel more seen, known, and understood in your emotional and relational life
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Growing confidence in in the moments that once felt impossible to navigate
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Your relationship feels more nourishing — because your needs are actually getting met
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More joy, satisfaction, and those "in-love" feelings toward your partner
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The ability to be fully yourself while staying connected — no more choosing between the two
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Pride in how much you, your partner, and your relationship have grown
Private Consulting Options
Flexible sessions and packages designed to meet your needs and support progressive growth.
Single Session
$300
Individual · 60 min · Zoom
$425
Couple · 80 min · Zoom
3-Session Package
$825
Individual · 3 x 60 min · Zoom
$1,200
Couple · 3 x 80 min · Zoom
Must be used within 3 months
Free 20-Minute Discovery Call — Let's make sure we're a good fit before we begin.
"Our sessions with Lisa are an inspiring, intimate invitation to deepen our loving for one another. She is an astutely skilled listener, tracking what emerges in awareness in an organic way with effortless, sensitive flow. We are often surprised and deeply touched by what we share and discover together. We consider it a privilege and great joy for us to work with Lisa."